Sunday, October 25, 2009

Ok when you stop drinking you realize what your friends think of you.?

Well and basically stupid, borderline whore who wont go anywhere in life. WOW. Im def not any of those and its amazing to see how people really think of you.Is there anyone dealing with this crap now?
Answer:
well yes do not run around with those that are knocking you down, cause you surely do not need that. You are going to have to learn just to relax, and pay no attention to what they are saying about you. You know it is not true, that is all that matters. Don't let them get to you, and destroy your self esteem , cause you really need you self esteem to be very good and strong now to get past this stuff. It should quit in a while, and then maybe you could have a talk with the so called friends that are saying this, and tell them they are not the friends you thought they were, and you don't need anyone that is going to talk about you like that anyway. Let them know you do not like what they are sayin about you, and tell then to go to H#ll.
my friends think that i am blood thirsty
Yep. When you quit drinking, the world changes, doesn't it? And it's rough at first, it really is. That's why a lot of people go to AA, or other support groups. Quitting drinking is part of changing your lifestyle, and that's hard. I really sympathize with what you're going through, and I remind you that you're pretty brave to give up drinking. Do you have help with this or are you doing it on your own? I hope you have support, because that helps. My best suggestion is to try and find new friends, get with a different crowd. Some people have success with going to church, others have success with finding other people with other interests to hang out with. Even something as seemingly odd as going to a stamp collectors' meeting or a library can lead to your developing a new and more positive crowd to hang out with, which I think is what you need right now.

Either way, you're doing a great thing by giving up drinking and getting your life on track. It's rough but keep on trying, and good luck to you.

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