Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Please could those who read my previous question, re-read it - about going loopy?

Sorry folks, it got so long that I had to use the additional details option TWICE. What a nightmare!
Answer:
i have just read your first question and no i do not think that you are going loopy i think that what you need is some support and to tell your husband how his moods are affecting you it sounds as if you have to do everything whilst he sits in a strop.your little girl may act as if she doesn't notice your husbands moods but it sounds to me as if he needs to realise that his little girl is growing up while he sits and does nothing and that as she starts to grow up she will be resent full of the fact that her father never spends anytime with her doing fun stuff,maybe your husband doesn't realise what affect he is having on family life so perhaps if you sit him down and talk to him and tell him that you would like it if you could do something at the weekends like take your daughter out somewhere and let her run about and burn off some of that energy that toddlers seem to have, and then have a nice meal somewhere just the two of you,if you can't get anybody to look after the little one put her to bed light some candles order a takeaway and spend the evening together .if this doesn't help i would suggest some marriage counselling. good luck.
i seroiusly dont think that your loopy, me, on the other hand, i am loopy, suiciadal too, and i cut..
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